I was leaving a comment on the previous post, but as it got longer I decided it was important enough to have a space of its own:
While I agree with both Zeno and Ozarkyn, I do NOT believe I have won the right to trash my ex, and in fact I don’t believe I have done that.
If you read carefully, you’ll notice that I have described events and words, and have not used judgmental descriptors. I do not use pejorative terms or assess his character. I tell the story and any conclusions you draw are your own, and while I appreciate the support, I cringe a little when people use pejorative terms because a) I didn’t go there, and b) it is usually way past where I would go.
I try to treat everyone with respect by not trashing ANYONE. However, I will relate events and I try to stay true to the facts as well as any involved person can.
I have made a promise to myself and others that this will not be a forum for revenge or slander or reckless ranting. (Well, maybe a little, but only on other topics). I take full responsibility for anything I write and am comfortable with all my friends and family reading my words. Comments are the opinions and thoughts of other people and though I may cringe from time to time, I believe everyone is intelligent enough to realize that I do not write those comments.
And now? I must get out of these boxers and into some kind of try-not-to-look-unwashed-and-bedraggled Mommy costume for the camp drop-off.